Submission in marriage?

This is a tricky question but a very important one that needs to be addressed. We believe that a man can adopt a submissive and servile role and allow his wife to dominate him ually, if it is absolutely clear that outside of the bedroom, the husband is the spiritual head of the marriage. Just as a woman gives the gift of submission to her husband, there is no reason why, for their mutual ual gratification, a man should not submit his body to his wife for her use and serve her ually. This is totally in alignment with the Biblical command that husband and wife give each other "due benevolence"; her body is meant for his ual enjoyment and vice versa. However, this reversal of roles in the context of ual relations is only possible due to the sanctity of the marriage bed, and an explicit understanding on the parts of both the husband and wife that they will adopt “natural” roles in the rest of their daily lives. I would counsel against couples living the wife dominant/husband submissive roles “24/7”, as this could lead to spiritual confusion